Trying to find the middle ground between adjusting to life as a brand-new lawyer and wife, trying to conceive(!), and renovating our 1850s farmhouse.

Sunday, January 10, 2010

House Intro

OK, here's the project that's probably consuming a disproportionate amount of my time. Our very own Moneypit. Our house!









We're starting with our sunroom first. You can see it on the side of the house in the picture above - the long windows kind of hiding behind that pine tree on the left. It's currently painted a lovely shade of chalkish pink, and the carpet is a nice geometrically patterned hunter green. If you haven't guessed this already, our house hasn't been updated since sometime in the mid to late 80s.




Before delving into detail about our plans for the sunroom, I think I should probably provide a little more background info on the house. It was a foreclosure, and honestly, the price was a little higher than we wanted to spend, but the house and the property are worth at least 3X what we paid - it was, in short, a deal we could not refuse. However, b/c the house is slightly out of our budget, we have to be a little economical (a word I hate!) in our renovations. And, wow, does the house need renovations. Every room needs new flooring. Every wall needs painted. The appliances are all on their last legs. And the kitchen... sigh... the kitchen. The previous owners wanted to keep the house as historically accurate as possible (despite their addition of an 80s-style family room), so they kept the kitchen in its original galley-style layout. For those of you who don't know, galley is a fancy way of saying small. It means that you can stand in the middle of the kitchen and touch the counters on either side.


And while I appreciate the fact that the kitchen sink has been in this exact same spot since at least the late 1800s, this is actually not my dream kitchen. I'd like a nice eat-in kitchen, or at least one big enough for more than one person to move around. The problem is that we can't expand the kitchen in the existing house, so we're going to have to add on square feet. Of course, the benefit of adding on is that the kitchen will then be connected to the family room, creating the open floor plan that I love. You can see in the background of the picture the family room with its staircase.





Anyway, the reason why I even brought up the kitchen when I'm supposed to be focusing on the sunroom (besides the tangled way that my mind works and being generally overwhelmed) is that we kind of were waiting to do our big fat kitchen reno/addition before we replaced any flooring because we want the same new flooring for all of the house (or at least the first floor). With all the additions, we don't want the house to feel choppy, and if every room has the same hardwood, it will seem to flow better. Our conundrum is that we most definitely cannot afford a major addition for maybe 5 years or more, so do we live with geometrically patterned hunter-green carpet of a late 80s vintage, or do we buy new, which we may end up replacing before necessary? My instinct is to not waste money on new carpet when I know I don't want to keep it, but what on earth am I going to do with that hideous old carpet??? What is the point of repainting the sunroom if it's going to end up ugly anyway?


After a ton of thought, we've decided to go ahead and replace all the first-floor flooring now, which is something that is doable even though it will stretch our budget, and just order enough extra hardwood for our planned addition to the kitchen, and we'll store the extra until we can afford the addition. So now I get the fun task of picking out hardwood! To be continued....


Life in the Middle

I'm not sure what direction this blog will take, but after about a year of enjoying the blogs of so many others, I finally feel compelled to create my own.

At the moment, I'm a first-year associate at a mid-sized midwestern law firm. I'd love to blog about the ups and downs of first-year associate life. I'm married, and my husband and I are working on getting pregnant. I also really want to write about that, because who knew getting pregnant on purpose involved so much planning. We recently bought a 150-year-old farmhouse, and we have major renovations in mind, some planned sooner than others. I'm super excited about those renos and the house, and I really want to share that stuff. Also, I turned 30 this year and my not-so-healthy lifestyle of late has caught up with me. I'd like to include some of my steps from being an inactive convenience-food junkie to a more mindful person... if nothing else than to hold myself accountable. Cause if I'm going to get pregnant, I don't want my baby to develop on fast-food salads and Lean Cuisines. Next, I have a slight addiction to Internet clothing shopping, and I'm really enjoying the challenge of building a professional wardrobe. Between undergrad and law school, I worked in a very casual atmosphere, so I have an entire closet filled with jeans, sweaters, and tanks. And dressing in pantsuits kind of makes me feel like I'm dressing like a man (but I hate skirt suits b/c (a) I hate my legs and (b) it's COLD in the Midwest!). So trying to find the balance between professional and feminine takes up a lot of my thoughts. Finally, I have two hilarious Golden Retrievers, and I just want post pictures of them. Cause they're cute. Here's Jackson, picture taken in March 2007, when he was about 6 months old:

And the picture below is Shelby. This was taken this summer, before she was old enough to leave the breeder and come home with us - she was probably 6 wks at the time.



One last thing: I kind of am lukewarm on my blog name.... I am hoping to come up with something less...hmmm.... legally boring?